A funeral or memorial is a chance to reflect on your time with your loved one. One big part of the experience is speaking at a funeral about the friend or family member you lost. Many also choose to read an elegy or obituary in honor of the deceased.
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- Best Modern Funeral Poems
- Best Classic or Traditional Funeral Poems
- Best Uplifting Funeral Poems
- Best Sorrowful Funeral Poems
It’s hard to find the right words that capture your feelings. In these moments, turn to the expert wordsmiths of the past and present. Reading a poem at a funeral is a way to reflect not only on the passing of your loved one but also to bring peace to the audience. Here are 50+ poems to read at a funeral, memorial, or celebration of life.
COVID-19 tip: If you're planning a virtual funeral using a service like GatheringUs, you can still share your poems with your online guests. Coordinate with your planning team, make sure you have the right mics and speakers, and send online guests digital funeral programs with the full poems.
Best Modern Funeral Poems
You don’t have to search the past to find some of the best funeral poems. Poets today capture the variety of the human experience, from both the highs to the lows.
1. "There is Nothing Purer Than That" by Rupi Kaur
Rupi Kaur urges readers to turn their sorrow into gold, saying “there is nothing purer than that.”
2. "Bluets" by Maggie Nelson
In “Bluets,” the narrator grapples with loss through the color blue. Her obsession with the color shows just how connected both love and loss are within the human experience.
3. "She Is Gone (He Is Gone)" by David Harkins
One of the most well-known funeral poems, these words are a reminder that it’s okay to feel sad about the passing of a loved one.
4. "Snowdrop" by Ted Hughes
Though only eight lines, this poem urges readers to consider the small things in life. “Snowdrop” discusses a flower struggling against harsh weather, but it’s really about the resilience of life.
5. "The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock" by T. S. Eliot
This poem is about how life’s changes are often out of our control. They pass the narrator by until he writes, “I have measured out my life with coffee spoons.”
6. "The Waste Land" by T. S. Eliot
Regarded as one of the most famous poems of modern times, “The Waste Land” is an epic unlike any other. In the final section, the narrator alludes to hope found in chaos.
7. "Do Not Go Gentle Into That Good Night" by Dylan Thomas
With powerful language, “Do Not Go Gentle Into That Good Night” emphasizes that those who live bright lives will triumph after death.
8. "Young" by Anne Sexton
Anne Sexton captures the beauty and charm of youth in her poem “Young.”
9. "Howl" by Allen Ginsberg
In this poem, the narrator urges people to cry against repression. This poem is a celebration of counter-culture but also a reminder to be yourself.
10. "When I Die I Want Your Hands on my Eyes" by Pablo Neruda
Translated from Spanish, this poem shares how relationships continue even through death. Though the narrator is gone, he wants readers to “live while I wait for you, asleep.”
11. "In a Station of the Metro" by Ezra Pound
Ezra Pound tells a story through images. As faces appear against the blur of a crowd, each one is bright and beautiful, if only for a fleeting moment.
12. "i carry your heart with me" by e. E. cummings
Because the narrator carries your heart, he is “never without it.” No fate could tear these lovers apart, not even death.
13. "There Is No Light Without a Dawning" by Helen Steiner Rice
There is “no winter without a spring” or dark without light. Even if those we love leave, we will find them again.
14. "She’s in the Sun, the Wind, the Rain" by Christy Ann Martine
If you just listen to the passing of nature, you’ll notice your loved one is still with you.
15. "As I Walked Out One Evening" by W. H. Auden
The narrator reflects on what he sees when he leaves his home one evening. From lovers reuniting to the beauty of nature, he says you should “love your crooked neighbour, with your crooked heart.”
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Best Classic or Traditional Funeral Poems
Beloved poets and authors have tackled funeral poems since the dawn of time. Their words bring much-needed comfort in hard times.
16. "Farewell" by Anne Bronte
Just because you say goodbye doesn’t mean it’s forever. These memories will live on “within my heart.”
17. "Music, When Soft Voices Die" by Percy Bysshe Shelley
Love triumphs over death in “Music, When Soft Voices Die.” Those we love are never really gone.
18. "If I Be the First of Us to Die" by Nicholas Evans
While life changes after the passing of a loved one, this doesn’t mean we’re alone. We remain the same, and grief should “not blacken long your sky.”
19. "Remember" by Christina Rosetti
In Christina Rosetti’s poem, readers remember their loved ones, but shouldn't allow their grief to hold them back from living.
20. "Crossing the Bar” by Lord Alfred Tennyson
This poem is perfect for anyone who loved the sea. “Crossing the Bar” shows that the tide may move us forward, but we’ll always turn back home.
21. "Because I could not stop for Death -" by Emily Dickinson
The Grim Reaper isn’t so scary after all. He’s a gentleman who takes the narrator gently towards death, promising peace in the afterlife.
22. "No Man Is an Island" by John Donne
No man exists alone as an “island.” Every man’s death is worth remembering.
23. "Intimations of Immortality" by William Wordsworth
William Wordsworth remembers the passing of a friend with fondness in this poem. Though they’re gone, we carry on.
24. "Footprints on the sands of time" by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
This narrative tells the story of people who died before us leave their “footprints” for us to follow.
25. "Fear no more the heat o’ the sun" by William Shakespeare
From the play Cymbeline, this poem proves that death can be a welcome release to a place of eternal peace.
26. "Legacy" by William Shakespeare
This sonnet reflects on how we all leave our mark on the world.
27. "All that they were" by William Shakespeare
From the play As You Like It, Shakespeare shares that during each person’s lifetime, we play many roles. Since “all the world’s a stage,” every part matters.
28. "Paradise Lost Book I" by John Milton
One of the greatest epic poems ever written is also home to some of the best classic funeral poems. The first book of “Paradise Lost” is where you’ll find gems like “the mind is its own place, and can make a heaven of hell.”
29. "Death, be not proud" by John Donne
Death is inevitable, but that doesn’t mean it has to be scary.
30. "Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep" by Mary Elizabeth Frye
Don’t cry at a loved one’s grave, because they aren’t there. They’re already watching over you.
Best Uplifting Funeral Poems
Not all funeral poems have to be sad. Taking a few moments to read an uplifting poem at a funeral eases the tension and offers condolences.
31. "’Hope’ is the thing with feathers -" by Emily Dickinson
One of Emily Dickinson’s most well-known poems, she argues that “hope” lifts the soul.
32. "Sonnet 130" by William Shakespeare
The Bard explains how his mistress looks to him in this famous sonnet. Though her eyes “are nothing like the sun,” she is still beloved to him.
33. "Sonnet 55" by William Shakespeare
People aren’t remembered by pretty monuments. They live in “lovers’ eyes,” remembered by those who love them most.
34. "If" by Rudyard Kipling
A father shares what it means to be a man of integrity.
35. "The Road Not Taken" by Robert Frost
For the person who’s lived life boldly, “The Road Not Taken” shares the importance of taking one’s own path.
36. "Invictus" by William Ernest Henley
The title of this poem translates to “undefeated,” and it’s an ode to those who don’t back down from fear.
37. "Still I Rise" by Maya Angelou
“Still I Rise” is a triumphant poem about the power of standing up for oneself.
38. "Caged Bird" by Maya Angelou
A celebration of African American resilience, this poem evokes all the rage of someone who someone who’s been kept in a cage for too long. Yet, it’s the caged bird who “sings of freedom.”
39. "Have You Earned Your Tomorrow" by Edgar Guest
This poem questions readers directly, asking if their actions are bringing good into the world.
40. "Dreams" by Langston Hughes
Langston Hughes reminds the audience to hold fast to their dreams. They’re the most important thing we have.
Best Sorrowful Funeral Poems
Reflecting on one’s feelings through a sorrowful poem is a part of the grieving process. Let these poems bring you peace through understanding.
41. "Funeral Blues" by W. H. Auden
At the passing of a loved one, there ceases to be any joy in the world.
42. "Crossing the Water" by Sylvia Plath
Though Sylvia Plath describes the crossing over a body of water, it’s implied that this passing is really between the land of the living to the land of spirits.
43. "I measure every Grief I meet" by Emily Dickinson
The poem questions how suffering connects us all.
44. "Acquainted With the Night" by Robert Frost
“Acquainted With the Night” presents the theme of isolation. The speaker is only acquainted with the night or nothingness.
45. "One Art" by Elizabeth Bishop
This emotional poem focuses on the pain of losing a loved one and how you never get used to the “art.”
46. "Harlem" by Langston Hughes
“Harlem” is a poem about dreams and what happens when they’re put on hold.
47. "When I Have Fears" by John Keats
The narrator contemplates all of the things he wants out of life. Will he have time to experience everything?
48. "A Dream Within a Dream" by Edgar Allen Poe
Written as a reflection on one’s life, how do we measure the fullness of time when it’s so fleeting?
49. "Mirror" by Sylvia Plath
Told from a mirror's point of view, the narrator struggles with her identity as both a young girl and an older woman.
50. "Tulips" by Sylvia Plath
In “Tulips,” the speaker feels lonely and disconnected from those around her. She’s fighting for a way back to her humanity.
Peace Through Poetry
Since ancient times, people used poetry to bring peace. These poems above use words to sum up even the most complex emotions. In times of need, they say what we can’t.
Whether you’re looking for something to read during a funeral or you need help processing your feelings, these poems are for you. Knowing what to say when someone dies is never easy.