Mourning jewelry and mementos date back to Roman Civilization. Back then they took the form of lockets when Queen Victoria lost her beloved Prince Albert. Hers was a wooden locket that would eventually transform into what we’re familiar with today. You can keep your loved ones forever in your heart by keeping a remembrance urn close to your heart.
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Whether you’re looking for something more or less conventional for a loved one, you’ll find several unique and beautiful options from which to choose. Take a look below to find a memorial locket that can be filled with just a pinch of ashes and an enormous amount of love.
Tip: If you're looking for something very unique to display (think a game, their motorcycle, or instrument of choice), you can custom order an urn from a store like Foreverence. You submit a design idea or sketch, then the company designs and 3D prints your urn, so you get a 100% unique container. Another unique option is turning your pet's ashes into cremation stones with Parting Stone.
Lockets for a Loved One’s Ashes
Choices for lockets for loved ones have blossomed from flora to fauna and symbols to shapes. No matter what their interest, you’re bound to find something that speaks of their nature, but also speaks to your heart.
1. Steampunk brass and silver locket
If you’re looking for something as unique as your loved one, then choosing between bees, clocks, and roses is just the beginning.
Talk with the jewelry artist, and you might even be able to commission something one-off.
2. Bronze tree of life memorial locket with inner orb
If you don't wish to see the ashes through the filigree tree, there are alternative options. However, it's recommended that you then use glue to seal the latch on the locket for safekeeping.
3. Sunflower urn necklace
A sunflower might be the perfect choice for a loved one who was full of life. As you know, the sunflower tracks the sun throughout the day, seeking any ray of light.
If your loved reminds you of that search for warmth inside beauty, the sunflower will be a perfect choice.
4. Sterling silver dragonfly
Embracing the dragonfly means that you likely embrace something more rooted in the meaning of life. It's an especially right choice for a loved one who, like you, believed one must be malleable to events as they come.
5. Sterling silver angel’s wings
Silver angel wings will hold a pinch of ashes from a little one who passed much, much too soon. Choose from heart-shaped or a simple angel-shaped option.
6. Heart-shaped silver “forever in my heart” with forget-me-not flower
The heart represents love, while the forget-me-not flower represents truth, honesty, and devotion. Both of these combine to make an appropriate choice for someone who has lost their life partner.
7. Infinity symbol
The infinity symbol, or lemniscate, would work well for the mathematician, engineer, or IT professional.
Although these have a wide range in cost, particularly if you’re seeking out one in precious metal, you can find some affordable silver-plated options.
8. Torus-shaped pendant
Not everyone is looking to announce their grief with an obvious piece of mourning jewelry. So, consider a discrete torus, or ring-shaped pendant. Most people will assume it's something handmade and original, but nothing more.
9. Faux turquoise teardrop locket
Discretely conceal your mourning pendant with a teardrop-shaped lab-grown (neolite) turquoise. If you're interested in another shape, just communicate with the artist for alterations on their design.
10. Feather with a small glass orb for ashes
Was your mom an ornithologist or retired birder? If so, here's a lovely pendant idea with her career (or hobby) in mind.
You can choose the color for the orb, including green, blue, yellow, pink, or purple. Choose one that will remind you of her.
11. Patriotic silver eagle for military member
Are you looking to represent the spirit of your loved one through a memorial pendant?
Even if your loved one didn't serve in the military, the bald eagle would work for anyone extremely patriotic. You can wear it with as much pride on your chest as they held in their heart.
12. Seashell with sea star memorial locket
If you and some loved ones are planning to scatter ashes at the beach, consider this pendant a potential keepsake for close family members. You could also grab a small vial of sand to mix with their cremains to have a layer of memories to hold near your heart.
13. Sea turtle locket
This pendant is for anyone who adored sea turtles or was an advocate for ocean health and sustainability.
Just a tiny pinch of ashes fits snug inside and will continue to be airtight for generations. If you follow the care instructions, your locket will remain beautiful.
14. Real dried flowers necklace locket
Consider drying a petal or two from that unique wildflower garden that used up most of your loved one's time and energy. If the locket is glass, you'll see the cremains along with the colorful petals inside.
15. Biological heart for your beloved
Wear this silver biologically accurate heart right above your own by choosing the correct necklace length. If the artist you’re working with does not have multiple chain options, then determine if you can buy the locket by itself.
That way, you can purchase the right size somewhere else.
Lockets for a Pet’s Ashes
There’s no need to feel constrained by stereotypes or spending limits with pet memorial jewelry. There are fantastic options out there if you let your imagination go for a while. To get you started, here's a shortlist of options.
16. Hourglass urn necklace
An hourglass makes for a unique cremation jewelry option because we often measure time and distance with loved ones.
Choose from silver, copper, gold, and black metals and then flip it up or down when you’re thinking of them the hardest.
17. Howling wolf locket
The wolf is a loyal pack animal that can teach and learn from pack mates in their inner circle. They’re also ambitious, adept, and form lifelong bonds. So, whether your pup was a big or little howler, inside was most certainly the wolf's spirit.
18. Disc-shaped glass vial for ashes wrapped in silver
Rather than filling the vial with ashes alone, consider an additional contribution of hair or some dried flowers. When you look at the vial, you see more than the ashes; you know the life they loved and the things they loved to do.
19. Memorial diamond pendant
Some companies, like Eterneva, create lab-grown memorial diamonds from your pet's ashes instead of filling a locket with loose cremains. You can choose from a few colors (clear, red, blue, green, yellow, or black) and several sizes (0.1 to 3.0 carats). The sticker price will probably shock you, but it'll be worth it.
20. Infused artisan-blown glass pendant
Not all glassblowers will offer this option. But if you live in a large enough area, you'll find a local artist specializing in cremains or ashes.
When you're able, you'll want to meet them to go over their portfolio and discuss your options.
21. Blue sandstone constellation locket
Blue sandstone looks like you're holding a million stars in the palm of your hand, which makes for a memorial locket that is big, bold, and unique. You'll discover sizes, ranging from choker (14") to lariat (33"), to suit your needs.
Choose this to remember the loyal dog who joined you on all of those camping trips.
22. Locket for pet ashes with photo
If you're like me, you've probably got hundreds, if not thousands, of your furry kid's photos on your phone.
If the artist assembles everything for you, choose a photo with a high enough resolution to fit a small frame. They'll send you instructions for an email after the purchase.
23. Silver locket with pawprints
Those muddy paws and countertop prints probably don't matter anymore, do they? That's why paw prints make for a sweet reminder of both cats and dogs.
There are several options available online, which may include personalization or engraving.
24. Green crystal urn
A tiny pinch of ashes can be kept safely inside this beautiful structure. The artist may not have options for a larger size, but you should choose an appropriate chain style and length to suit your needs.
25. Celtic trinity knot
When choosing a Celtic knot, read the reviews to find one of quality; otherwise, you may be disappointed.
Once you've found the artist you'd like to work with, choose a shape that fits your needs best. Options include round, oval, tubular, square, cylindrical, and triquetra.
26. Silver personalized round locket
If you think of this in terms of a dog's name tag, sometimes the most straightforward or simple option is the best.
Pro-tip: Once you personalize an item, it becomes non-returnable. Make sure you have excellent communication with the seller or artist to get exactly what you want.
27. Heart-shaped nose print locket with a chamber for ashes
Nose prints make for both heartwarming and creative urns for your doggo. Because technology is so amazing, you should snap a photo of your little one's nose for this project.
Not only that, but you should also be able to personalize the pendant with their name.
28. Dog tag urn with a chamber for ashes
Indomitable guardians of the realm come in sizes ranging from teacup to giant. No matter what size your little protector might have been, they deserve a memorial befitting their character, not their size.
Consider a dog tag that you can engrave and personalize with your tough little snuggler’s name and birthday.
Keeping Your Loved One Near Your Heart
Hopefully, this list has helped you discover a range of options for memorializing a loved one with a pendant. From conventional choices to unconventional ones, it's essential not just to think about how they lived, but also how their spirit thrived.
Pro-tip: Most funeral homes welcome you to use any memorial jewelry you like for your loved one, whether that purchase is made with the funeral home or not. But don’t be surprised if you incur a small fee for using more than one urn.