A wonderful sister will love you through all of the ups and downs of life, no matter what that means. But when you lose a sister, no matter what your relationship, that loss can be overwhelming.
If you haven’t been through it yourself, it might be hard to understand the impact of a loss like this when it happens to a friend, family member, or lover. So how do you find the right gift to help commemorate that loss? After all, you're not just searching for the best gift—you're also searching for something that can comfort and remind the bereft of their deceased.
Jump ahead to these sections:
- Personalized or Customizable Memorial Gift Ideas for the Loss of a Sister
- Loss of Sister Memorial Gifts You Can Make Yourself
- Other Memorial Gift Ideas for Someone Who Lost a Sister
Searching for memorial gift ideas for a beloved sister doesn't have to break the budget. Below you'll find some gifts from a range of prices, some as cost-conscious as sheet music and some more expensive like designer jewelry pieces. Scroll for ideas that match both your budget as well as your needs.
Personalized or Customizable Memorial Gift Ideas for the Loss of a Sister
The options here use at least one of the five senses. Whether that means freshening up the house with her favorite perfume, listening to wind chimes, or warming up by a campfire, choose any one of the memory-invoking prompts below to serve as continual reminders.
1. Customized journal for each sibling
Commission a customized journal with your sister-in-law's name on the front to serve as a diary or chronicle.
Here, brothers and sisters can share stories or have conversations with her any time they like. Plus, it offers them a reason to be contemplative and spend time with their thoughts.
2. Unique necklace
Keep it close to home and shop with a local jeweler. Your neighborhood artisan might have the gentle hand you need when shopping while grieving.
Have a conversation with them and explore some ideas, then they can draw up a design. There are no limitations to your imagination; just choose something that'll speak to your loved one’s relationship with her sister.
If you want something even more special, a memorial diamond is a great idea. These are created using the ashes or hair of a deceased loved one, and the result is truly stunning. Eterneva specializes in unique memorial diamonds to honor any sibling.
If you're looking for something more solid and tangible, companies like Parting Stone create beautiful, handheld cremation stones to help someone grieving keep their loved one close by.
3. Charm bracelet
Do you take vacations with your sisters every year? If so, start this year with a new charm bracelet.
On her birthday or another memory day you choose, send each one of your sisters a charm from a place you've visited. As the years go by, the bracelet will fill up with memories.
4. Custom scented candle for a friend
Begin with some personalized etched glass with the sister's name. Then, take that glass to a local candlemaker who will infuse some wax with a favorite floral scent or perfume.
To turn this gift into something even more extraordinary, include additional wax, wicks, and scents with some directions so they always have something beautiful to remember her by.
5. Permanent match lighter
For the sister who was the metaphorical light in the dark, purchase a permanent match lighter. Then, take it to the local engraver to have her name or nickname inscribed on it.
It'll work for the tireless, stormproof, wonder-of-a-sister who never let anyone down—her warmth will never be far away.
6. Handwriting on necklace or keychain
Did your husband save his last birthday card from his sister? If so, engrave a keychain with something written in her handwriting. If the card ever gets lost in a move, he'll have the keychain for posterity.
Alternatively, if your loved one prefers a necklace, something similar can be accomplished with a local or marketplace jeweler.
7. Memorial wind chimes
When choosing a wind chime, consider the personality of the deceased. For example, was she more of an earthy spirit or a chic city fashionista? Did she love natural beauty or did she like a little bling?
Once you've got your answers, then you can narrow your search for the perfect chime to remind someone of their sister every time the wind blows.
Loss of Sister Memorial Gifts You Can Make Yourself
DIY gifts are a combination of thought, time, and craft. In times of immense grief, the insight will be appreciated. Hopefully, there's something here for you to make whether you are good with food or craft.
8. Homemade bread and raw honey
Use your gift for comfort food and give some homemade bread and raw honey. If you keep bees, you know the delicacy of gifting raw honey.
If you're also an experienced bread maker, you certainly appreciate the treasure in sweet honey and warm just-baked bread. Together, the two will warm bellies and hearts.
9. Quote jar
Once you have your supplies gathered, you can put your penmanship to work on this project. Here’s what you’ll need:
- Stationery or construction paper
- Twine or ribbon
- Choice of writing utensil
Have your friend or loved one help you come up with some quotes from their lost sister. You can look through old letters, social media, or even just rely on memory. With a full jar of sister-isms, you’ll preserve her voice even after she’s gone.
Pro-tip: You’ll find a host of decorating ideas for lidded jars at your local craft store.
10. Ornaments made from a favorite book or sheet music
There are plenty of DIY sites and videos available to create any number of projects using her favorite book or sheet music. Test your skills using origami or Moravian star techniques, and then choose the most suitable.
Pro-tip: Attach a ribbon so it’s ready to display in a window or on a holiday tree.
11. Photo-filled holiday ornaments
Special ornaments are always placed on a tree with love. So, here’s one you can easily make at home. Here’s what you’ll need to do:
- Select several photos of your loved one and their sister
- Print them in miniature, but still big enough to see
- Cut around the edges of each photo
- Insert the little pictures into either acrylic or non-breakable glass orbs
- Reattach the lid and finish with a pretty ribbon
Pro-tip: Keep the photos small so that the ball can be shaken to reveal new photos every time.
12. Birthstone earrings
Handcrafted birthstone earrings can be worn in honor of a sister during any season. Just head to the local bead shop for some semi-precious stones to take home for your handmade project.
Pro-tip: Hypoallergenic metal is a safe choice if you’re worried about allergies.
Other Memorial Gift Ideas for Someone Who Lost a Sister
Gifts that provide ways for continued tributes to a beloved sister will be cherished for many years. Below, we’ve listed a wide range of options from pocket coins to trees or house plants.
13. Coin bank for birth year pennies
Purchase a new or vintage coin bank and then attach a notecard with the following:
I’d give you a penny for your thoughts
With all those wishes and oughts.
Search your palm for that coin you carry
Then think of me and be merry.
While a thought is no replacement for any beloved sister, searching through one’s change will always keep them at the forefront of the mind.
14. Birth year vintage coin
Some mint or uncirculated coins may be too precious to carry around every day, so you may want to choose one suitable for a deep purse pocket.
Pro-tip: Mention that they should keep the paper covering intact. That way the coin isn’t mistaken for spending money.
15. Memorial tree kit
When choosing the best memorial tree, consider the climate where it'll be planted and the time of year for the gift. If you live in a snowy environment, then it's good to wait until Spring to have the tree delivered.
16. Elegant photo frames
Search the sale sections at posh online stores. Generally, you can pick up a heavily discounted luxury item without spending too much. That way, you’ll purchase something well made, but without the sticker shock.
17. Star registry
As a purely sentimental gift, you can name a star after your best friend’s sister.
This will work for any stargazer who spends his summer nights camping. Or, for any night owl who often comes off the mid-shift to find the sky blazing with millions of nighttime twinkles.
18. At-your-service gift
Gifts to be used in the future reflect the hand-made coupon books you may have heard of once or twice.
However, when written in a card or email, the sentiment becomes less cutesy and more proper. So, if you have a needed skill or some time to spare, then offer to help.
19. Make a donation in their name
Making donations in another person's name is both respectful and kind. Plus, you'll also be helping find a cure or a cause that mattered to the sister and her family.
Just slip the confirmation receipt into an envelope so your friend can open it when they're alone.
20. Plush comfort wear for a friend
What do you curl up with on the hardest of days? If you know your friend's preferences, then assemble a basket with a plush blanket, a pair of slippers, and some comfortable pajamas. Add ice cream, hot cocoa, and a DVD if you like.
A cactus makes the perfect plant gift because cacti do not require much of a green thumb, and cats generally stay clear of the spines. Plus, they’ll grow well in any sunny windowsill.
Pro-tip: Don't forget to add care instructions, especially if your friend possesses very little plant savvy. Balanced watering habits are crucial for hot, dry soil-loving flora.
Memorial Gifts for a Beloved Sister
In addition to the gift you’ve chosen, add a hand-written card filled with words of sympathy for the loss of a sister, quotes, and anything personal that would matter.
There is no 'right' or 'wrong' way to honor someone's memory. Whether you create a custom urn with Foreverence or choose one of these ideas above, this is something you or your recipient will appreciate for years to come.
Often, sisters become the mother figure late in life, so the pain in loss drives a compounded emotional tension. But, hopefully, you’ve discovered something worthy of your loved one’s grief after reading through the ideas listed above.