Being one year cancer-free is undoubtedly worth celebrating. If your loved one recently passed that significant mile marker, it’s time to have a party. Show your friend or significant other you care by making a favorite food, decorating the house, and inviting friends over for a shindig.
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- Party Ideas for Someone Who’s Celebrating One Year Cancer Free
- Gift Ideas for Someone Who’s Celebrating One Year Cancer Free
Some people become very close with the members of their medical team when going through cancer treatment. You may consider inviting a favorite chemo nurse or oncologist to the party. After all, your loved one will no longer be seeing that medical professional at regular appointments and they were integral to your friend’s survival.
Party Ideas for Someone Who’s Celebrating One Year Cancer Free
Survivor parties are a celebration of life, so any life-affirming theme would be appropriate for your party. Here are some ideas for themes, decorations, and activities.
Perhaps you don’t want to wait a year to have a party. Some people have a party as soon as they have recovered from their last chemo or radiation treatment. Most of these themes would work for a “last treatment” party also.
Regardless if you are hosting a “last treatment” party or “survivor” party, make sure the party is full of positive messages for the cancer patient. The party may also act as a message of hope for someone who is currently going through treatment.
1. Knock-out party
If the survivor is comfortable with the “fighting cancer” imagery, you may consider using a boxing theme at the celebratory party. Gather as many boxing gloves as you can for decorations.
Make boxing glove-shaped cake pops. Create a photo booth that looks like a boxing ring. Make sure to purchase a silk boxing robe for the guest of honor to wear.
2. Color party
Everyone knows that the color pink is associated with breast cancer, but you may not know that most cancers are assigned a particular commemorative color. The color gray is associated with brain cancer, and colon cancer is dark blue.
Create a party using the appropriate color as a theme. Invite your guests to a “Pink Party” for a breast cancer survivor or a “Purple Party” for a pancreatic cancer survivor. Ask guests to wear the appropriate color, and try to match the decor, drinks, and food with the theme.
Purchase a colored boa or top hat for the guest of honor to wear.
3. Surprise party
You could also host a surprise party! Even though you don’t want to spoil the surprise, you may try to plan the party so your loved one will be well-dressed. Survivors sometimes put their appearances on the back burner while undergoing cancer treatments.
They may be ready to have others see them looking their best again.
4. “Survivor” party
Most people are aware of the long-running reality show, “Survivor.” Use images and themes from the show to create a cancer survivor party.
Decorate the space with a jungle motif, including vines and tiki torches. Serve kabobs and drinks in coconuts. Make a tribal council sign to use for a prop in the photo booth.
5. Black-tie party
Most people don’t dress in formal attire very often. Why not host a black-tie affair for your loved one’s survivor party? Most cancer patients get tired of wearing hospital gowns and PJs. Hosting a formal event would allow them to look their best once again.
6. Give cancer the boot
Have a hoe-down and encourage guests to wear boots, cowboy hats, and western wear. Decorate tables with gingham tablecloths and serve barbecue, potato salad, and beans. Hire someone to teach others to line dance or square dance.
Hire a mariachi band to play at the survivor party. Serve burritos, tacos, enchiladas, and margaritas. Create a cancer-themed pinata and let the survivor whack on it.
8. Fundraising party
Perhaps you would like to use the opportunity of celebrating being cancer-free to raise money for cancer research.
Sell tickets to the event and have all the proceeds go toward the American Cancer Society or other cancer-related organizations. You may also want to support local organizations that serve cancer patients.
You don’t need a theme for a cancer survivor party! Blast life-affirming music, fill the space with balloons and serve simple and delicious appetizers. Have attendees sign a poster that reads, “I didn’t do this on my own.”
Gift Ideas for Someone Who’s Celebrating One Year Cancer Free
If you have been invited to a party for a friend who is now cancer-free, you may wonder what type of gift to bring. While being cancer-free is gift enough, it would be nice to commemorate this achievement by bringing some token that shows you care.
You can look on lists that show small gift ideas for friends, but since cancer survival is rather a big deal, you may consider a more elaborate or time-consuming gift to commemorate the achievement. Here are some ideas.
10. Memory book
Create a DIY memory book for your friend. This gift doesn’t have to cost a lot of money, but it may take a long time to put together.
Show pictures of you and your friend through the years and include a heartfelt letter saying how much your friendship means to you.
11. Survival clothing
It shouldn’t be too challenging to find survival shirts or hats from online retailers. You should also be able to find pre-made articles for each type of cancer, but you could consider personalizing the item as well. Your loved one will wear his or her survival clothing with pride.
12. Gym membership
Did your friend let his gym membership lapse? If so, consider purchasing a membership at your workout location. Invite your friend to work out with you to encourage a healthy lifestyle.
You want a gift that screams “CELEBRATE!” Why not purchase a bottle of champagne for the survivor? Pair it with a “survivor” champagne flute.
Look for survivor jewelry for your friend. Consider a bracelet that your friend can proudly wear every day.
15. Gift card to a clothing store
Your friend may not wear the same-sized clothing after going through cancer treatment. Help your friend restock his or her wardrobe by purchasing a gift card to a favorite store.
16. SCUBA certification
Is your friend anxious to knock off some bucket list items? Consider helping your friend achieve some of these goals by purchasing a gift certificate for SCUBA certification. Since this is a great “buddy” activity, sign up to get certified at the same time.
17. Hot air balloon ride
Going up in a hot air balloon is a great life-affirming activity. This may also be an item that your friend has on his or her bucket list.
Make sure you are there at the take-off and landing point to take photos and a video of the event.
18. Spa treatment
Your friend is probably ready for a little pampering after undergoing cancer treatment.
Give the survivor a gift certificate to your favorite local spa. Let your friend choose the spa activity since not everyone is comfortable with every type of service. You can read our guide on relaxing gifts for some more ideas.
19. Photo calendar
Since you are celebrating the gift of time, it is appropriate that you would create a personalized calendar for your friend that shows the number of days that he or she has ahead to enjoy.
Add a weekly or monthly date with you to the calendar to show that you are excited to spend time with the survivor.
Many people don’t think about the emotional ramifications of receiving a cancer diagnosis and going through treatment.
Your friend may be looking for a way to express these complicated feelings. Give your friend a beautiful journal to give them a place to plan, dream, and reflect.
21. Tote bag
Your friend may want to share his or her survival story with anyone who will listen. Offer a survivor tote bag to give others a message of hope.
Your gift doesn’t need to be expensive or elaborate. Simply give the survivor a beautiful bouquet of his or her favorite blooms. Perhaps you can even pick them from your garden. Giving flowers or plants is a beautiful way to show that you care.
Tell Your Friends How Much You Care
While throwing parties and giving gifts is a perfect way to celebrate your friend or family member, don’t forget to tell your friend and family member how much you care. Write a heartfelt letter or explain how much the patient means to you in person.
Unfortunately, many people only share their feelings after a person dies. Instead of writing all the good things about your friend for her eulogy, why not tell her how amazing she is while still living?